Retired Empath
I hung up my empath hat.
Turned that shit in.
Before I enrolled in The School of Life I was told that you could not “not” be an empath. Something in my soul said, “ This is not a true statement.
I wanted to be free. I did not want to have to depend on another to feel value or worth. I no longer wanted to give my precious energy until I was depleted, just to give me the false perception of fulfilled purpose.
This is illusion.
Empaths share a very enmeshed and codependent relationship with narcissists. They both find value in the other. They give each other purpose. Without one another they each feel worthless independent of each other. The empath is the life force energy for the narcissist and vice versa.
One of my favorite teachers at The School of Life Maryam Hasnaa had coursework that supported leaving the archetype of being an empath. The class was called Retired Empath. She even had plant medicine to support us in the journey out of empathship.
I found out that I indeed could no longer be an empath. I was elated!
After years of reworking and reprogramming my nervous system, I can now intuit what others are feeling, but I no longer take on their emotions and transmute them through my vessel.
It is possible to not be an empath and not become apathetic.
I have the ability (as we all do) to connect with others without being codependent of their energy. I connect with interdependence. This means I can connect and disconnect, attach and detach, without causing damage to my aura or that of another’s.
The whole purpose of the School of Life is to enlighten, or to show the Truth through the veils of illusions that the “world” has created, in order to keep you away from your true purpose on this planet.
To free you from the bondage that illusion and trickery has over your life. There is so much more to life.
Are you wanting to free yourself? Do you wonder where to begin?
Would you like to see? Truly?
Let me help you.